Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Name

Have you ever wonder what does your name means? Though it may be an English name, or a foreign name (chinese, tamil etc), surely it contains a meaning to it. Our parents would normally name us accordingly to the meaning that their would want us to portray in our life. Many a time, name may be the one that pull us up or destroy us. Why is this so? Ask a kid who had been bullied in school. Probably their name can be twisted to become a certain crude or funny name that can be labelled unto that poor child. 

Similarly, in the Kingdom of God, our name is carved at the hands of God. We are remembered by our name. In Isaiah 43:1, it is written, "But now, thus says the LORD, who created you, O Jacob, And He who formed you, OIsrael: "Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name; You are Mine." 

Having a name with meaning is one thing. Being who the name signify is another thing. Many a time, we always question, "why do i have such name?" Rather than asking why, try searching for the true meaning of your name, and live it out.

My name is Abigail (in case you do not know). Abigail is a hebrew name which means, "God/He is Joy". So, how can i portray this wonderful meaning, if all day long, I'm unhappy and complaining about everything and anything under the sun? Instead of portraying such a lovely name, i'm actually doing it a disfavor. I realised that it's really true how name affects your destiny. 

The woman in the bible, by the name of Abigail, truly is a great woman of God. If you follow the story of her in the bible, one thing really stand out strongly, that God indeed is joy, and from her, it also displays that sacrifice replaces all forms of selfishness. 

Everyone knew the theory of "survival of the fittest". This is true in the case of Nabal, the husband of Abigail in the bible. He is a man widely detested by those around him, especially David. The story goes on to show the tension that is slowly arising out of the situation BUT Abigail, the wife of Nabal, stands in the gap. Even though Nabal may be "brutish and mean" as seen in 1 Samuel 25:3 (MSG), Abigail is "intelligent and good-looking" (1 Sam 25:3 MSG). Though she may be both, it is not just on the outer surface, but rather, it is more of how she turn this and use it to save her family. 

When Abigail heard of what Nabal had done, she spring into action by warning David about what is going to happen and as such, it could be seen that she has stand in the final gap between her family and sure death. So, how does the meaning of her name works here? Well, firstly, she does not defend Nabal but agrees that he may be a bad character, which shows of good judgement, therefore bridging the gap between peace and anger as David might not listen to a woman who only wants to beg for the life of an evil man. This truly brings joy to David, as not only does she displays a good judgement, she begs for forgiveness and not of justice, accepting blame she she is innocent and offers gifts and warns David to leave Nabal to God's hand and avoid the heavy weight of remorse if he so ever kill Nabal. As such, God is truly glorified, that through one woman, she had saved the day of preventing a bloodshed from taking place, as well as putting peace into the heart of David. 

Well, speaking on a personal level, for me, it talks quite deeply into my life. As the name that I carry, consist of a certain characteristic that links back to woman of the bible, named Abigail, King David's wife after Nabal was struck dead by God. The greatest lesson that can be learn from this story, is that of "taking our eyes from her beauty and set them on someone else's. She lifts our sight from a rural trail to a Jerusalem cross. Abigail never knew Jesus at that time of old testament, but she portrays His life in that she placed herself between David and Nabal. Jesus placed himself between God and us. Abigail volunteered to be punished for Nabal's sins." Christ is punished for the sins of you and me. "Abigail turned the anger of David." Christ shield us from the anger of God. 

Through Christ, we gain love, peace and joy. Joy is achieved when sacrifice is made. Sacrifice should be made with joy. Joy is not just a feeling. It is a combination of action and sacrifice. For me, I treat my name differently from all other name, with the knowledge of this woman in the bible, of what she had done. Indeed, God is glorified, that probably all around the place during that period of time, people are glorifying God, joy fills the entire place, at the death of the evil man, Nabal. 

One thing that really struck me tons, is not really about her being beautiful and intelligent (though it is a good quality to have in my life! haha...) but rather, it is that she stands in the gap, between her family and death. She save her family. She is like the beauty, standing face to face with the beast and not being afraid, she boldly took the step and trust wholly unto God for help. 

My family has been going through many many things for few years already. Sometimes, i wonder. "God, when will this end?" But i wholly trust unto God, that He is never late. All things will fall into place. When i understand the full meaning of names, i longed to become like the Abigail, the woman in the bible, that stands in the gap for her family. Wow. How awesome. Total and complete trust to God. She is not afraid, but bold and full of confident. 


No matter what you may be going through today, always remember, that God is always near. If you are willing to step out in faith and trust in Him, like how Abigail did. Never despise your name, regardless of what name you have, God called you by your name. There is a purpose for it. 


Isaiah 45:4
".....I have even called you by your name; I have named you, though you have not known Me."




Tuesday, April 28, 2009

28 April 2009

  • Have been praying and fasting on Monday and Tuesday. Praise be unto the Lord for strength, presence and wisdom. Continuing......I want more!! 
  • Thank God for Christine who lend me the cd "This is our God" upon which....i kept on looping this song when I worship and pray. It is really good! Presence of God...whoa~ God, i want so much more of You! 
  • Felt encouraged by the things going on around me
  • Need to start striking a balance between school work and other stuff. Away with lethargic feeling and more of passion and excitement required.
  • Today, 29th April 2009, marks the day that my dad has left for a week. The other day i was asking God about this. And well, i was reminded of the parable of the prodigal son. Probably, my dad will be back. As a prodigal dad? I think well, when he left, it gave me a whole new perspective of everything. Probably this is a way in which my mum, my sis and myself, can take a breather and probably reconsider many things. Felt good that he is not here, maybe it helps me...but ultimately, I know he will be back. 
  • Went for the briefing for Fashion Week. What can I say? ...... Better not. 
  • This few days, after having a great time jamming last friday, i thought about many stuff. About me playing the bass, guitar etc. Probably it's time for me to take it to a whole new level. Firstly, lets start with learning how to read notes! *urgh! 



I'm gonna strive for excellence. I have been making the same mistakes over and over again. I gotta learn and stop expecting my leaders to keep telling me about it! Time for a change. 








In whatever I do, let God be glorified. God, glory be unto You. You deserve all glory and praise. Nothing else compares to You, nothing else takes Your place. You are all that I need.  





Thursday, April 23, 2009

The heart of one being bullied

I was always the odd one out in groups
They stole all my things
I was a kid bullied in school

The teachers didn't care
They just left me sitting there
I don't know what I did

But since knowing Christ,
Oh, how the tides have turn

Coz I used to be bullied in school 
Who always ran away and hid
No one took the time to know me
The "kick-me" sign was always on me

Now everybody wants to know
What I do and where I hang out
At least now I know they won't bully me
Coz I have Jesus living in me 

It's all history
Now I have put it all behind me
Look at what I have become
I got recognize in the streets
Everyone i met
Remembers me being bullied
But now it's all changed
Coz I have Jesus living inside of me

He's the reason why I go to school with no fear anymore

Thank You


I sit and reminisce
Of all the stuff that I have been through
From small stones to big obstacles
All the crap that a teen needs to take
Parents to schools
Friends to boys
I have only been through one
Phrase of my life
And it has just began

Growing up can be so strange
But some things will never change
To all those who cared for me
I just wanna say, 
"Thank You"

To all my friends who I wanna be with
To all my family that shake my world 
To all my teachers who gave me such academic memories
I wanna thank you for being good to me



Change of Heart



The movies I love this year
Can't be compared with those of the past
The songs that I hear
Is always the same old song
No, it's not a case of my hardening of heart
Nor I'm no longer feel it any more

Suddenly I felt this heart of mine
Is subtly changed
Saying goodbye
To yesterday's stain
If my dreams contain a certain secret
It will be kept till I grew old
And eventually
I will write a novel on it

A change of heart
I'm discarding all the negative memories
So that I may have a more sincere look
Even though I may not comprehend
Why love is gone
The reasons for those pain and loneliness 

A change of heart
I don't care why he don't love me anymore
I just concern and care for the stranger's smile
Feeling carefree 
I'm gaining back my freedom


Alas, I'm able to let it go. 


Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Desires

Desires of My Heart

Really desire
To walk on the same road with You
Regardless of Paris, France or Tokyo
Even to the entire world
With You holding me in Your hands

Really desire
To stay in wait for You
I knew it might be a test of my patience
Even if it means for a long time
With all my heart I will commit

Really desire 
To make a joyful sound for You
Though it may seems silly to the world
Eventually I will break free
And express the joy I have in You

Really desire
To spend every minute in Your presence
Enjoying Your fellowship
Filling up the emptiness in my heart
And drawing closer to You

Desires will always be desire
It will only be fulfilled
With actions taken
From now on
I will.....












22nd April 2009

Yesterday, after meeting up with Sean and Christine, on my way back home, i was just listening to my ipod, i felt so excited about God and i kept snapping my finger. haha. (if you know what that means). Anyway, when i reached home, i was so excited that i went to my prayer closet and seek the Lord and read the book of Job. Well, got quite a revelation from the few chapters I read. 

Today, I woke up feeling excited about school, though it is 9-6 for me, i'm still excited. Normally, my Ipod will be on shuffle mode, and amazingly, from the bus stop of my house till bugis, throughout the entire journey, my ipod goes on God-mode! Every song played is a Christian song! Wow. How amazing! And i just love to listen to praise and worship song early in the morning as it helps me to be refreshed and everything. 

In marketing class today, many thoughts came to my mind. I know i should pay attention but some thoughts are hard to shut it off. For my projects, though the information is hard to find, i thank God that my lecturer finds it good and alright for the M.A.C information collected by our group. I have a conceived idea in my head roughly the stuff that I am going to place into the report. Haha...I like to think ahead and apparently my group likes it, so i guess it's pretty alright. 

Thank God there isn't any HRM today and no CONTEMPORARY HISTORY OF FASHION tomorrow. Praise the Lord for that, because i really need time for other stuff and a break if not i'll be in lala land soon. Haha.



Till next time. 





Am going to gain pieces of jigsaw puzzle through victory in Christ


Saturday, April 18, 2009

Teardrops on my guitar

I was just listening to the song "Teardrops On My Guitar" now. Early on in the day, i was practicing the guitar and part of the time, I practiced bass lines on the bass parts of the acoustic guitar. I suddenly thought of my bass guitar. If you don't know what happen to it, well, my dad took it and sold it away for a lame reason. The bass guitar meant so much to me. I was so afraid of my other bass guitar suffering the same fate, that I left it in safe hands with Julia and Rallen. Thank God for them. Anyway, I re-wrote the song "teardrops on my guitar" to fit this context.
I realize that I still can't forgive. I seriously don't know how. I pass by him day and night. I seriously can't. I need help. I know I need to forgive him, but I don't know how. I thought it's forgiven, but I guess I'm wrong.  Gosh. I'm crying now.

"Teardrops on my guitar" -can't be sang to though. 

Dad looks at me
He fakes a smile so I can't see
What he wants and what he needs
And everything that he deserve

I bet he's incorrigible
That tone he speaks
And he's got my bass guitar
That I have to live without now

Dad shouts at me
I laugh cause its so funny
It's my bass guitar you are talking about here
As if its his to begin with

He says he is borrowing it
He still thinks he is right
I wonder if he knows
Basic thing such as ask

He says he's so in need
He still can't get it right
I wonder if he knows
He is the pain in our hearts

He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only thing that withheld me from moving on
He's the angst in my life
Don't know why he is doing this

Dad walks past me
Can't he see I'm in pain?
And there he goes, so nonchalant
The kind of attitude that makes me sick

He better meant his word
Give back what he owe
Look at these lives he broke
And know the truth

He's the reason for the teardrop on my guitar
The only thing that witheld me from moving on
He's the angst in my life
Don't know why I felt this way

So I swallowed it down
As I try to move on
I'll put it all behind me
And maybe get some sleep tonight

He took from us and it's never enough
To quench his appetite for money
Dad looks at me
He fakes a smile so I won't see

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If only he knew how I felt. Everyone needs closure in life. I just don't have the guts to speak up. I'm sorry, to those who kept asking me to speak up. I don't have the guts. I don't wanna perish. Probably someone would just help me tell my mum i need closure for this to move on. It's the jigsaw puzzle piece i got to win to fit it into the big picture of my purpose in life. God, i need You. 


Im not going to bother other people by telling them what is going on in me right now. Probably i'll get over it soon. I bother my leader too much about it already. My mum is in great stress. My sis can't take it anymore too. My friends are turning deaf on me. So, don't tell me to erase this post. 


Besides this, around this time in 2006, my beloved music instructor past away. Probably I'm just feeling it all. I didn't really weep when i heard the news even though he is someone important to me. 


I need closure to move on. 









Easter Poem 2

This is a poem about Carmen from the Easter drama. Her feelings after she was resurrected. 

Things may not be what it used to be
It's been a long while
But I've come a long way
I could just stay out
But I rather be there by your side

Don't judge me again, Daddy
Coz when I am home
It just won't feel right

I don't mind your correction
I'll look for the light in your eyes
Good enough to know 
That you still care and love me

Sit down beside me
I'll be glad that you're here
You may be home late
But its good enough for me 
To know that I'm yours and you are mine

I want to bring our love back
Don't know why
I used to wander off track
It's not worth all the fighting anymore
It's not worth having finally won
I can't be sorry for all the things I never done
They are all the things you and I hate but can never outrun

Love is restored
When I breathe again
We are gonna bring love back
Through His love
Now that we 
Have a clue how to do so
We just know that if we don't 
Our relationship will never change

We will walk side by side 
Find ourselves again
Face the dangers we see
No more strangers are we
We will be bond together
By Him, through a prayer

And we are family once again.


Thursday, April 16, 2009

I was pretty inspired by the Easter Drama so well as the song "Stranger In Me" from "It's My Life! Musical" . So, I wrote a poem about Silas' thoughts after what Jesus had done for him.

It was so foolish of me,
To get caught up in the past
Of her death
And not see the future ahead of me

I think about what I have done 
A part of me cries out
How could I be so near and yet so far
Instead of looking at Him
I only saw my guilt
and that was also far from what He felt

Wherever His love for me came from
I couldn't comprehend
How could He had done so
He died on the cross for me

Whatever came from Him
It was more than a case of me and Him
He took it upon Himself
So I could be free

I don't want to live love
In the shadow of history
The future is not history
It is the here and the now

He is no longer a stranger
He became my Savior
He carry the weight of the cross
He died so I could live

I dont know what is coming
I'm not much of a guide
I've never been so low
As when she died
With every tear i cry
Was woe to him who shouts "Crucify"
It's so unfair how one mistake
Could make the deepest stake
I'm to blame for every single thing

"I'm never gonna make you pay
For what you could never ever owe
The debt is is mine and you should let it go
I'll carry the weight, for every single one"

Do I dare to love again
Or was it curse right from the start
Do I dare to pin my hopes and dreams in the canvas of my heart

"Go forth, its long forgiven"








"Me-isms"

In this state of economic downturn, the society becomes uptight, uncertain and jittery at all times and even the children of God, are not being exempted from this period at all. When there is darkness in the place, people would fall into an avalanche of what i would refer as "me-isms". 

"Me-isms" is a state whereby all an individual looked at is self. Thoughts of "get what you want", "you deserve it", " don't sacrifice your life for anyone" fills the space of the minds of inward-looking individuals. No man in this world is perfect. ALL would fall into this state at certain period of time. The higher the level of "me-isms" present in the life of an individual, the deeper the pit hole of denial is being dug and one of the main cause of "me-isms" is denial. 

Denial, is an easy way out to many problems faced in these times of uncertainty, suspicions and darkness and it is widely accepted concept and philosophy that the society would open its arms to in order to 'solve' some of the issues that had already surfaced in our society which is hard to overcome. However, as a believer of God, denial is not what God would want us to have in our lives. Instead, self-denial is what is essence for a Christian, that we no longer deny the situations around us, but rather, we go back to the basics of basic in life, to the foundations of our christian beliefs. 

Therefore, rather than placing emphasis on "me-isms", getting what you want, take a step back, analyze the situation, accept the situation as it is, and seek after God for a solution, as God will never allow us to be tempted beyond our capacity to overcome. Shutting down the desires of "me-isms" immediately will hurt, but when done slowly, we are activating our will and the more we use our will, the stronger it gets, as like a human muscle. As such, with the development of our will muscle, we are able to allow the "me-isms" to slowly subside, and eventually turn it around and together with the seeking of the Lord, we can eventually have a life of "God-isms" instead. 



~inspired when I read Pastor Phil Pringle book. 


Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Weakness


I saw this image online. I thought of what i said to Rachel today. Hmmm....who should be stoned? Me or Her? Haha....

Thoughts (14 April 2009)

14th April 2009. 
- marks the day whereby i have seen the various lecturers for this term module. Well, what can I say? When I have experienced the best, I would not want the second best. I would still prefer the best. One sentence sums it all. We miss Madeleine (we call her "Maddy"). My classmates and I were just talking about it over lunch at Soup Spoon just now. So we drop an sms to Maddy saying we miss her. haha..
- i wonder why some people do the things they do. Shouldn't they thought about consequences? Or in any case, thought about the time they are going to waste on doing the things that they are doing? I wonder. Can't say the name here. Sorry. If not I would have rattle away.
- still dwelling on the fact that i can't buy True Religion jeans from Skin Couture anymore. I'm SO gonna buy online. Seriously.
-I'm not sure what's wrong with me, but I'm still kinda in a lazy mood. Still not geared up for assignments, classes etc. Probably the term break is too short. It's just one week and that week I burn it all away doing important stuff. 
- was amazed that Rachel recognized it immediately when I was practising paradiddle on the table at Soup Spoon today! I played it real slowly and she knew it immediately. It means i get it right! ahha....Thanks to Christine for teaching me that. 
-still thinking about Barbie Doll. I wonder....

Monday, April 6, 2009

Series of Randomness


1) On sunday, i helped out to clear stage at expo, played with Ethan, Erin and Erika (totally love their blond/black hair, eye color, sweet smile...). Anyway, Ethan inspired on one thing. He showed me his RETAINER. He was so enthusiastic about it. So i mentioned to him i have one too, but not as nice as his. I haven't been wearing mine for months. So right now, i'm wearing it, its time for me to look after my teeth once again (after years of wearing braces, i would hate it if it ever go out of shape again). In case you really dont know what a retainer looks like, mine is like this picture here( i took it from google image..haha.)

2) It feels weird that today is the start of a new term, and yet, my schedule states that I only need to go for class when week 2 starts. Urgh. I was so eager to go to school. Can't stand it when i'm not doing anything.

3) Went to www.style.com. Looked at pictures upon pictures of runway images. The first thing that came to my mind? 'I can/should have use this picture for my history of costume research book. It will be stronger for me to portray a point'. It is now, that i realized, what a workaholic i am.

4) Had great fun on sunday evening after MTT hanging out with some strikeforce members at Timbre. Loved that place. We went to listen to the band in particular as it will be their last time together before they disband. They played blues music and I'm so amazed at the bassist because not only is he enjoying himself, he can play scales while closing his eyes! Wow. If only I can reach that stage (therefore, I must practice hard!). After a while, we decided to celebrate Wilson's birthday (He is a youth pastor from America...He is so cool. You wouldn't even think he is a pastor when you see how he open up, have a carefree attitude etc). Anyway, its great hanging out together....really loved it tons.


5) I'm CONTEMPLATING....should i stop blogging while i'm having my school term or only blog during term break? I wonder. Ain't gonna use this as a source of complain though..haha. 




Wednesday, April 1, 2009

It's been a while since I've last blogged. The previous time that i've blogged, its before school term starts. Now, a term is gone. I have gained tons of knowledge on Fashion Merchandising, Color Theory of Fashion, Textiles and History of Costume...did many projects as well. Wow. I cant believe so many things happen over the past 3 months. 

While everything seems to be moving so fast, some things seems to not have moved at all. Change is the only constant in life, but amazingly, the change in my family seems to be moving really really slowly, as if it is a slow-mo video. The talks and thoughts of things that are supposed to be done, are yet to be done. Procrastination, seems to have fall into place. Now, I'm questioning myself, why am I holding on to the debts of my parents? Why do i have to carry the burden of the mistakes made by adults? Is this the life that I want to live by? It is always easy to get caught up in the past, and forgetting the future that lies ahead. All I wish, is for the one party to say, "You're not to be blame for everything". In fact, I'm not the one at fault from day one. It's so unfair how one mistake, can make the deepest stake in the lives of two. Would they ever say, "I'll never make you pay." Probably, it still remains a fantasy of mine, for one party to say, "I'm sorry". I always wonder, do i really dare to go ahead and love, or do i draw back, thanks to the scenes i've experienced in life? 

The song from "It's My Life! Musical" that I always felt is so close to my situation. As the musical has elements of all of our lives, I guess this is one closer to me. (That man his name i carry is no longer my father.....)

It's raining again
Time to take in the dirty laundry
The basket is heavy
Maybe God is saying this is my load to carry

Its raining again
I'm weary of this constant fury
Breaking up is easy
Was that what you had in mind when I was a baby?
In Your heart you and him can't stand shoulder to shoulder
That man, his name i carry is no longer my father
This roof over my head is no longer my shelter
The one you had loved before is now a stranger
You like to repeat like a broken recorder
There's nothing left to fight over
It's better late than never
Ideal if it's sooner
It's your answer 
To forever
Forever

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Can we actually move on? Or will we remain stagnant for the rest of our lives? Who made me the keeper of my parents debt (not talking about finances here)? Why should he take from us, when he don't even care at all?

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This few days, due to projects and many other stuff that is crushing down on me, I'm kinda stumbled in a way which causes me to question about my choice of the path that I took. But thankfully, i seek advice from wise people  and amazing they told me what to do, give me advice etc and well, I've sorta in a way gain back what i believed for in the past once again. Thanks again to these people and I guess people like my lecturer, Madeline, really gave me such good advice and my sis as well. Boon has also constantly saying that we should go up to the next level. So well, I'm going to take all their advice and really towards it. Everyone has high hopes and expectations for me....I wonder why...do i really have great potential as what ______said?
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I realised that throughout this year, i've gained many experiences, knowledge and more importantly, I felt that I have in a way, grown up. It may felt that I'm kinda thick skin to proclaim that, but amazingly, that is what i feel personally. I start to realize that i should work hard for what i want, rather than stretching out my hand and ask for it, like a beggar when I'm already 20 years old. According to a research by Fortune magazine, it is said that only 4 out of 25 generous rich people gain their wealth through inheritance. The other 21 people worked their way there through giving and hard work. I want to be like the other 21, and not like the other 4. Ultimately, the 4 who gain it out of inheritance, they do not experience things such as poverty, hard work, discipline, courage etc because everything that they needed and want has already been provided for them, therefore, they do not treasure more. I have friends who are in this category, and sometimes, when I look at how pampered their life is, I no longer admire them or hope to have life like that (though i use to in the past). I thank God for where I am today, for when the day comes whereby I reached a stage whereby I'm where I wanna be, I will be able to held my head up high and know that I have work hard for it. In a way, in comparison to these friends of mine, I felt that I'm more "rugged" in a sense. I have been through so much, that if they are to go through the same thing, it will crush them real bad, like how one said to me the other day. 


List of things I wanna/try to do for myself:
  1. Pay for my school fees. Im left with like $25,000 plus to pay. Hopefully, I can contribute some amount to pay for my own fees. (not going to take it for granted and be spoon-fed)
  2. Pay for my own driving license, test, lessons etc. (this is for my own benefit. If I want it, I'm going to go get it myself. If even this I have to ask my mum to pay, I seriously think I'm kinda like a 'failure'. Coz working to get something you want is better than reaching out your hands to get it, so Im going to work hard for it, get my own car [FERRARI! THE WOMAN WITH THE FERRARI IN SCHOOL SAID THAT I COULD GET IT IF I WORK AS HARD AS HER. AND SHE IS YOUNG! ]

There are many more things that I wrote here...but i decided to erase it off so that I would have some privacy. Haha...



Mum just came back from Thailand. Now she is telling me my aunt is paying for her tickets to China. AGAIN! My other aunt paid her tickets for Thailand. I guess when she come back from China she will fly again. Haiz. Everyone around me is flying. Im flying as well....In my results. 


PRAISE BE UNTO GOD! Full marks for my exams. Full marks for assignments. Full marks for presentation so far for my Fashion Merchandising. Whee! Hopefully, next term would be bettter...


Signing off.....blogged at 3am again.